The Best At or The Most
This page identifies just what I love about some of my friends and loved ones.
Each category is not in any particular order and there are no number one’s, I’m afraid.
SO WHAT AM I GOOD AT?
Public speaking
Public speaking began at my sister Nikki’s wedding reception in 2006, though I wasn’t particularly skilled at it then. Since then, I’ve had the opportunity to read at various funerals, including those of Ron, Dad, Maggie, Donald, David, Aunty Gwen, Sarah Williams, and David Jack. Each time, I’ve felt a slight improvement in my delivery. My most recent experience was delivering a 22-minute self-written debut standup comedy set, which served as the Groom’s Speech at my wedding.
Singing
I’ve often been complimented on my singing by others, both at karaoke bars and from forced audiences who endured my songs. Whether it be on CD or live in FaceTime calls.
Driving
Driving is something I consider myself to be very proficient at. As a professional, I’ve been a courier, handling the stress and pressures of driving and parking in and around Central and South London. I’ve also been a chauffeur in American stretched limousines (six and eight-seater) and luxury cars like the Mercedes S Class, the Bentley Arnage, and the BMW 760i. Driving my own cars and using motorways feels incredibly natural to me. I often joke that I could drive with my eyes closed, but I’m not serious!
Counselling
On the rare occasions when my friends and family members seek my advice about their current issues, I’m delighted to hear that they feel better afterward. My daughter has often complimented me on my understanding and non-judgmental nature. My sisters have both remarked on my excellent listening skills, and I’m flattered that I’ve earned that title, especially since I’m usually quite talkative.
DJ’ing
DJing is likely regarded as an ‘old school’ style of radio presenting these days, but I’ve had a lot of experience with it. I started when I was 13 years old, working in hospital radio, and then again in the late eighties, for pirate radio. And in between those times, as a mobile disco outfit, DJ’ing at house parties and in youth clubs, event halls and a couple of outdoor parties too.
Letter writing
I’ve always been confident in compiling letters for both business and personal purposes, even though I’m not an expert. I have a good knowledge of the English language and dictionary. Friends and family have often used my letter-writing skills, from job applications and CV design to letters of complaint.
Computer teaching
I believe my ‘hands-on’ approach is the most effective method for teaching someone else how to use a computer. Standing behind the person and guiding them through the process helps them grasp the exact steps involved in performing a task, reducing the likelihood of forgetting what they’ve learned. Afterward, a quick recap session can be a fun and positive way to reinforce the knowledge.
Musical knowledge
Musical knowledge (chart songs from the 1960s to the 1990s) – I recall a lot of the information I learned about chart music, positions, band names, and song titles from 1977 to 1980 (my specialist year was 1979). I hosted a chart show on hospital radio and also collected the Top 40 listing while at school on Tuesdays afternoons. I would listen to Paul Burnett on Radio 1 in the park with my transistor radio during lunch breaks.